What you have observed by looking around your social circles is born out by the numbers: According to nearly every relevant statistic, the institution of marriage is in serious trouble. The National Center for Health Statistics tells us that the number of Americans choosing to marry is declining.
Millions of couples who were once deeply in love and believed they were wonderfully suited for each other are seeing their marriages fall apart. If you and your spouse are going to beat the odds, you will need to pray and bring dedication and hard work to your relationship.
Does this challenge seem more like a threat than a promise? We have good news. First, couples who are willing to invest in their relationship will find the greatest fulfillment and meaning that life has to offer. That is the promise of a godly marriage. Statistics bear this fact out too! Second, you need not try to beat the odds alone. In fact, you were never meant to.
Take a Moment to Reflect
- What, specifically, does having a “happy marriage” mean to you?
- Are you content with your relationship? Why or why not?
- What can you do to bring more joy to your marriage?
A Prayer for Your Marriage
Heavenly Father, You designed the covenant of marriage from the beginning, and my marriage belongs to You. Please bless our union with Your best. Draw us closer together, and draw each of us closer to You. Amen.
From Dr. James and Shirley Dobson’s book, Night Light for Couples.
