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Day 4: Do You Believe That God Owes You Something?

The natural reaction to hardships is to say, “Lord, is this the way You treat Your own? I thought You cared for me, but I was wrong. I can’t love a God like that.” It is a tragic misunderstanding. My concern is that many believers apparently feel God owes them smooth sailing, or at least a full explanation (and perhaps an apology) for the trials they encounter.

We must never forget that He, after all, is God. He is majestic and holy and sovereign. He is accountable to no one. He is not our servant, we are His. And our reason for existence is to glorify and honor Him. Even so, sometimes He performs mighty miracles on our behalf. Sometimes He chooses to explain His action in our lives. Sometimes His presence is as real as if we had encountered Him face to face. But at other times when nothing makes sense—when what we are going through is “not fair,” when we feel all alone in God’s waiting room—He simply says, “Trust Me!”

(From Dr. James Dobson’s book, When God Doesn’t Make Sense.)

Just Between You and God

  • Do you believe that God is working all things for your good? (Romans 8:28) If it feels like He is not, ask Him to show you how this trial could be a blessing—and look for His answer.
  • Are you able to trust God when it appears that everything is falling apart? That’s often the hardest time to lean on the Lord, but call out to Him for strength and ask that His will be done.
  • Do you believe that God owes you something? If so, ask Him to remove your expectations and help you to rest in His Word.

Pray These Words

Heavenly Father, thank You that You have plans for me that are for my good and Your glory. Even when I can’t see all the answers, help me to trust in You and Your providence with every part of my being. Please remove my expectations and fill me with Your peace that passes all understanding. Amen.

 


 

“Dear friends, do not be surprised at the fiery ordeal that has come on you to test you, as though something strange were happening to you. But rejoice inasmuch as you participate in the sufferings of Christ, so that you may be overjoyed when his glory is revealed.”

1 Peter 4:12-13

 


 

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Dr. James Dobson

Dr. James Dobson

Dr. James Dobson was the Founder Chairman of the James Dobson Family Institute, a nonprofit organization that produced his radio program, Dr. James Dobson's Family Talk. He earned a Ph.D. from the University of Southern California and held 18 honorary doctoral degrees. He also was the author of more than 70 books dedicated to the preservation of the family.

Dr. Dobson served as an associate clinical professor of pediatrics at the University of Southern California School of Medicine for 14 years, and on the attending staff of Children’s Hospital of Los Angeles for 17 years in the divisions of child development and medical genetics.

He advised five U.S. presidents and served on eight national commissions.

Dr. Dobson was married to Shirley for just shy of 65 years, and he was the beloved father of two grown children, Danae and Ryan, and two grandchildren.

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