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Many couples think there’s nothing wrong with no-fault divorce. They might say, “We don’t get along, so why should we stay together?” In this video, Matt and Ariel Holcomb explain that God is the one who created the institution of marriage, so we need to examine it from His perspective. One passage in the Bible specifically reveals how much our Heavenly Father blesses the marital union and hates to see it destroyed.
When married couples experience conflict or separation, they cope with the stress in different ways. Some might withdraw or try to find ways of escape, while others become angry or controlling. In this video, Matt and Ariel Holcomb explain that these responses can devastate the spiritual health of both husband and wife. Sometimes, the effect is so grievous it can cause them to become callous and indifferent toward the Holy Spirit. As difficult as this can be, there is always hope in Christ.
When a married couple has a close, intimate relationship, it provides security that leads to peace in the home. Research shows this calming effect has physical benefits too, such as reducing blood pressure, anxiety, and depression. In this video, Matt and Ariel Holcomb explain why the opposite is also true, as conflict and separation can reduce immunity and cause traumatic health issues.
The toll of divorce on one's health is often overlooked. However, research shows that when a marriage ends, this highly stressful and emotional experience can have a profound impact on a person's body. In this new video, Matt and Ariel Holcomb explain some of the devastating effects, such as cancer and other serious illnesses. Watch this critical message today.
Time heals many wounds, but the effect of a divorce on the most vulnerable in the family may never mend completely. In this new video, Matt and Ariel Holcomb explain that the impact on kids is far worse than originally thought. Studies show that when parents divorce, children can replay the pain of that breakup for 30 years or more. The evidence is compelling and should encourage spouses to rethink ending their marriage, except in rare circumstances through prayer and godly counsel. Before calling it quits, consider the damage it will cause. Staying together can be hard, but destroying the marital bond designed by God can be even worse for everyone in the family. Watch this critical message today.
After a divorce, parents often share custody of their kids. What happens to a child when he or she has to leave one parent's home to visit the other? In this very personal video, Matt and Ariel Holcomb discuss the breakup of Matt’s mom and dad and how it impacted him. Watch this heartbreaking video to see why staying married is so important for a child's mental health.
The wounds that occur in marriage often seem so deep they can’t be healed or forgiven. Anger, bitterness, and even hatred can develop because of sins against each other, and all of these emotions can be difficult to overcome. But in this video, Matt and Ariel Holcomb explain that how we respond to our feelings and circumstances will teach our children about the nature of God. The example we set can either give an accurate portrayal of our Heavenly Father or do the opposite.
Staying married today can be hard, even for Christians. Sadly, the divorce rate for those in the church is just as high as it is for the rest of society. But ending this covenantal relationship comes at a high price. In this new video, Matt and Ariel Holcomb explain that divorcing your spouse can be emotionally painful, financially devastating, and spiritually depleting. The Bible makes it clear that God hates divorce and only allows for it in specific cases. Instead, pray and seek godly counsel to try to find ways to reconcile and regain trust that has been lost. Watch to learn why this is so critical.
Even before sin entered the world in the Garden of Eden, God created marriage as a symbol of the relationship between Christ and His church. This is how precious this institution is to our Heavenly Father. In this video, Matt and Ariel Holcomb paint a beautiful portrait of this Holy covenant, and explain why Christians should try to avoid a divorce, and instead seek godly counsel to bring healing and reconciliation.
It’s easy for us to imagine ourselves in a better situation than we are in right now. This is especially true when conflict in marriage becomes unbearable. Christians must be wary of allowing our thoughts to create a “grass is greener” picture, as this can be the beginning of infidelity and divorce. In this video, Matt and Ariel Holcomb explain that God created the covenant of marriage for our good, and while it won’t satisfy all our desires, He uses it to bring holiness into our lives. That is where we find genuine delight.
